By choice


A couple of days ago, a friend asked me whether I was attached. Ok I believe most of you my frenz noe that I’m not and I’ve never been. AND I’m extremely happy being sassy, single and satisfied. Haha… anyway, it kind of brought me to this topic of By Choice. The reason why I’ve never been attached especially since sec 2 onwards was BY CHOICE (b4 that it was because of my mother’s wisdom in Christ n she forbade me to have a boyfriend which I am eternally grateful for. Sidetrack for awhile: the good thing about parents not allowing you to start dating young is that you don’t become emotionally unstable). Why in the world wouldn’t I want a bf? The thought of having a bf has been attractive before I admit. But I purposely don’t wanna have one because at a young age it causes unnecessary problems and situations we don’t have to go through. So it is BY CHOICE.


Btw if you haven’t realized this isn’t a topic about not having a bf it’s about choosing. God made us and gave us freewill therefore most of the things that we go through in life we can choose to lead to whatever outcome. There are times when we have to choose like which course you want to take. But there are certain times where the choice is a subconscious thing. True it’s God who places the desires in our hearts. But whether you want to follow your heart or do your own thing is really BY CHOICE. No one can stop you from making decisions you want to. But influence is another matter. You must come to realise that it’s you who makes the decisions (ok so last time your parents made certain decisions for you but that was when you were a child DIFFERENT). Many people succumb to peer pressure, which is under influence. It can be for anything you know. But did you ever realise that ultimately it’s YOUR CHOICE? They can influence but they can’t decide. So let’s be people who are independent and when we do things we do it by? Yes BY CHOICE.


For me, I strongly believe in having Daddy make decisions for me because I want to be Christ dependent. So this is my choice. To let Daddy take control of everything in my life. Cos you can be rest assured that He’ll make the best choices for you always. He wrote your book. God’s big sometimes you won’t only get one choice see so these are times where it’s really YOUR CHOICE. That’s our Daddy: unselfish, and letting us make our own decisions.